Middle-Class Singapore - The Selfless Creatures
I just found out something, my ideas don’t come to me unless I am out of my home, so I’ve taken to blogging while on the bus, train, cab, walking on the streets.
So why do I say Singaporeans are selfless? In general, Singaporeans always think for others before themselves. Singaporeans may be known for being the 2 “kias” (kiasu - afraid to lose/kiasee - afraid to die), but they are afraid of something else, they are afraid that others lack help.
2 weeks ago, I was at a toastmaster chapter of another club. One of the topics discussed was, should we restrict what our maids wear? And the general consensus was, no. But has anyone given a thought to our people? The waiters at McDonald’s, the door man at our hotel lobby, the insurance agents selling policies on the streets. They were all given specific instructions or specific clothing to wear. Has anyone sympathized them? They are all employees under paying employers, what’s the difference?
Singaporeans may be known to be best at picking the right bargain, in fact sometimes things may turn ugly, ruining the image of Singaporeans as a whole. But when it comes to giving, the sense of saving is lost. Singaporeans, no matter how poor they, how distraught they could be, don’t resist giving. Besides the all fanfare charity shows, the kindness of Singaporeans could be seen when disaster strikes at a neighboring country. Support from all levels would come pouring in. Take Myanmar’s Cyclone Nargis disaster for example. People from all levels pour in donations of all sorts. Even with the inflation affecting everyone now, people continue donate whatever they could. A certain local company, whose financials aren’t as strong as before, continued to show support for this cause with a huge donation of money. Renhao says that this is just flaunting of corporate social responsibility. But I say not. Many of the companies which called in for donations are only willing to donate in kind, donating their old stocks, and these are foreign MNCs with huge capital. What they are doing is of course very nice of them, but given the comparing financial positions of the companies, what the former did is unbelievably generous. They have also shown immense concern for the efforts. I’m not sure whether the news has been out yet so, I’m not gonna say its name here. But I’m sure those who are receiving this donation would have utmost gratitude for them.
May 10th, 2008 at 1:06 am
I suppose the difference is that the people you mentioned in uniforms need some form of identification as well as brand reinforcement which isn’t present/necessary with maids.
May 10th, 2008 at 1:08 am
What about office workers then? They still need to dress appropriately. I think it is more of a professional conduct.
May 12th, 2008 at 10:35 am
but we are talking about domestic helpers here leh..imho i would prefer to assimilate my domestic helper to feel like she is part of the family as she has to work 2 years here and it would be for the better if she can feel at home as happy workers = higher efficiency. whats more if i am wearing home clothes, i think that she should be allowed to do the same.
as for corporations, they have to meet clients, macs have to meet customers, they have a brand to carry. by making maids have an extra set of uniform, i think it would be more of drawing the line to seperate them. unless we are talking about french maids here then…heh
May 12th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
what i’m trying to say that people should not complain about domestic help not being to wear sexy clothes as they please… the point is they are not here to flaunt..they are here to work…
adding to that.. we should also note the trouble employers have to go through if anything happens to them.
July 19th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
Molzney seems to be the prototype of an arrogant, small tailed Singaporean, thinking he has arrived since he bought his 2. hand toyota so that he can demonstrate his importance with complaining about higher fuel prices to her maid, which is propably pretty bored about this and other topics from her somehow weired employer. Fortunately the maid hopefully won’t have any trouble if anything happens to you. By the way, if you want to lower your kiasee, just kill yourself.
July 20th, 2008 at 12:25 am
And I take it that you are from the other end of the society driving the second hand Daewoo? Are you blind or something? I haven’t at all commented about high fuel prices. Don’t comment if you can’t even use proper English or should I say, simple English?